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[xxxnatty]

Dugo nisam bio tu. Ali ovo je sjajno, posle toliko vremena moja tema, i to o mojoj omiljenoj temi ....

[alexsan]

ja sam iz hr i imao sam djevojku sa kojom sam bio dugo godina u vezi kad smo bili sami uvjek sam bio u zenskoj odjeci nasminkan stalno smo cekali priliku da budemo sami ona je obozavala da mjenjamo uloge ja zensko a ona musko i neznam dali cu to dozivjeti ikada u zivotu.ali to je bilo u italiji i morali smo prekinuti jer se ona odselila poslovno u ameriku.od tada sam toliko nesretan jer nemogu vise doziviti sta smo imali ja i ona.drago mi je da vidim da u srbiji ima puno zenskih koje to vole jer u hr sam 100 puta stavio oglas.vjeruj mi da mi je to bilo najdivnije u zivotu tako sam naucio da budem osjecajan.pa ako koja cura procita i zeli se javiti slobodno.ja sam inace iz pule

[Luba]

Heterosexual Guys Attracted to TGirls? Definitely.


In the past year one thing I've heard hundreds of times from hetrosexual guys:

"I'm attracted to tgirls but I'm not gay! I don't really know what to think of this."

Guys, you can relax now! Being attracted to tgirls (transwomen) does not mean you are gay! In fact, it only affirms you are straight. The people who are most attracted to femininity are heterosexual men and lesbian women. The people who are attracted to masculinity are heterosexual women and gay men. Bisexual people are attracted to both masculinity and femininity.

Gay men are attracted to males, whereas many tgirls are more feminine than even regular women, so gay men are not attracted to them. Whereas straight guys who are attracted to the femininity of regular women would also naturally be attracted to the femininity of transwomen.

There is a rapidly growing number of heterosexual guys who are realizing their attraction for tgirls, yet so many are afraid to admit this because they think it means they are gay. Being attracted to transwomen will not lead to attraction for men because tgirls are *not* like men! Rather, they *are* very much like women on the inside, and often look so feminine on the outside too. So it's natural for straight guys to be attracted to them, and still be totally straight.

One real bonus of straight guys who are attracted to tgirls and secure enough about themselves not to worry what others think, is that only straight guys really know how to treat a woman *like a lady*... gay men don't have much concept of this, and lesbians tend to shun the concept of femininity. Straight men are the best at fully expressing appreciation for the beauty of a woman. Most tgirls want nothing more than to be treated like a lady, so it's a real bonus when a true gentleman recognizes her as such.

[Luba]

There are times in our lives when all the signs seem to be pointing us in a particular direction. Our thoughts and dreams are echoed in the songs and stories we hear and the media we see. Maybe the message we are getting from the universe doesn't even make sense in the "real" world, but somewhere inside, these urges feel right. Maybe you feel you are being told to move to a new city although your life where you are is just fine. Or maybe you feel the desire to pursue a new direction in your career when it never really interested you before. When we spend time getting in touch with our higher selves, our intuition sends us directives to lead us to become our best and most fulfilled selves. And when we are open and listening, the next step is to take action and go for it.

Once we make the decision to pursue our inner urgings, the universe sets into motion the means for all sorts of details to fall into place. A sense of peace will come over us, because we know that any questions will no longer make us wonder if our dreams are possible, but how to make them happen. Instead of deterring us from our goal, these questions only serve to clarify our focus to move us forward. We need not throw caution to the wind to follow our dream. The positive shift in our energy affects everything around us. Like a rush of water, it goes ahead to clear debris from our path so that we can go forward. Our new attitude also attracts likeminded people. Sometimes even the most unlikely angels arrive to help us along our way with the information and support we need.

Wherever your dreams are pointing you today, take a step. Take action and manifest your inner urges and soul whisperings.

From www.dailyom.com

[Luba]

Embracing Your Gender Opposite


Woman or man, each human being is whole. We are all a compendium of many different forms of energy that interact to create a balanced person. To be human, therefore, is to be both gender specific (man or woman) and gender complemented (masculine and feminine). It may sound strange to say that in every person there exists both female and male aspects, but these aspects are tightly interwoven within each of us and learning to access these aspects can help you understand parts of yourself that were previously hidden by a lack of knowledge. Denying this unique polarity can lead to feelings of frustration and confusion, while embracing your gender opposite can bring about a sense of harmony and peace within your soul, a completeness.

It may seem natural to say that in women, the female aspect is dominant, and in men, the male aspect is dominant, but this isn't always the case, nor is it healthy to attempt to conform to such standards when they don't correspond to who you are. The innate gender aspects will be expressed in many different ways throughout your life. A man may be receptive, nurturing, and empathic in one instance, and analytical and heroic in another. Likewise, a woman may be protective, assertive, and directive, as often as she is intuitive, creative, and mysterious.

The male has his female side, just as the female has her male side, and either may be prevalent. Encouraging those aspects to work together through meditation or visualization is one way to honor both the masculine and feminine side of you. You may want to inwardly request that your aspects converse to determine if they are working as mature and bonded partners, or, because of emotional trauma, are working against each other.

Though the differences between the male and female aspects create a dynamic tension, it is possible for one aspect to entirely (and unhealthily) overshadow the other. Some people believe that the soul will be housed in bodies of both sexes during their many incarnations. Part of who we are is based on the interaction between the feminine and masculine aspects, akin to the interplay between the forces of yin and yang. Though, at different times, each of us may feel truly masculine or truly feminine, a well-rounded personality derives from the blending of both qualities.

From www.dailyom.com

[Luba]

Why Do I Love Transwomen?

Because I am a natural born woman, I have been asked on more occasions than I can count, "why" do I care about transgender issues and "why" do I have so many friends in the online trans community, since I myself am not trans? I was born female, so "why" am I here online representing and supporting transgender women? My reasons are a combination of personal, social and spiritual. I'd like to write a little more about each of these areas, then expand in future blogs based on your interests.

Personal Reasons…

On a personal level, I am bisexual femme top, so none other suits me as well as a bi-gendered male-to-female (M2F) transwoman. No other type of potential love partner is more attractive to me, particularly those who are comfortable with both sides of their gender.

For a male crossdressing en femme, it is often erotic, sensual and sexual, yet it goes even deeper because dressing allows his inner feminine to emerge from the heart of a man, invoking a feeling of relief and joy as she is able to breathe through her true self. To observe, participate, facilitate this emotional healing is blissful to me, satisfying and fulfilling beyond measure.

All my romantic/sexual inclinations are for M2F trans of all degrees from crossdresser, femboi, transvestite, bi-gendered, transgendered, transsexual – all males who respectfully cross the gender line are so beautiful in my eyes. Someone who can switch between male and female, or who embodies both at one time, is the ideal match for a bisexual woman like me. This intense attraction is the magnet that keeps me transfixed, despite that I myself am not trans, the love of my life certainly will be.

Social Reasons…

On a social level, it is from a strong feminist perspective that I support transwomen. I am someone who believes that feminine is of equal value to masculine, and it is healthy and normal for females to be masculine, or males to be feminine. Because I am a feminist, I admire the ideals of femininity, so it makes perfect sense to me that many humans aspire to the feminine, no matter whether they are anatomically female or male.

Society has a deep-seated underlying disregard for the feminine, which is why women and transwomen are not treated as equals to men. The gender imbalance is a social problem which has existed for millenniums. All feminine people, genetic women and transwomen, are on the same side of the movement toward true gender equality.

As a feminist, I love and revere the feminine, so I hold in most special regard those born male who have the strength to be feminine in this harsh and cruel world. Males who possess such an inner goddess essence that they choose to cross the gender divide and become one of us, are the ultimate feminists in my book. I urge all women, all feminists, to recognize and embrace transgender women as our true sisters.

Spiritual Reasons…

From a spiritual perspective, I believe the human soul is genderless. I believe our Higher Power is genderless. It is only in physical earthly form that we are bound to vessels which are gendered. In our angelic forms, we have the knowledge, wisdom and understanding of both feminine and masculine, in perfect balance and harmony.

I believe it is evolutionary for humans to transcend societal bondage of stereotypical polarities, in particular the illusion of binary gender. As we evolve as human beings, we get closer to our angelic forms, we find a growing inner knowing of both masculinity and femininity. People who cross the human-made gender construct are only following a natural course of soul evolution.

We as human beings are not meant to be caged by the artificial duality we have created for ourselves. The time has come to transcend the illusion and ascend into our most beautiful selves.

What Do You Think?

So you see, I have a number of reasons for loving transwomen. I could write so much more if you are interested. I would like to hear from you. Along which of these lines – personal, social or spiritual - should I expand? Has anything I've said inspired you, and how? Do you have comments, questions or requests?

[Dii]

Preoblacenje, bilo zene u muskarca ili muskarca u zenu me je oduvek fasciniralo! Toliko da sam odlucila da pisem diplomski rad o TV/ CD osobama. Zelela sam samo teorijski da obradim ovu oblast, ali moj mentor smatra da mi je potrebno i istrazivanje!
Ako neko od vas zeli da razgovara o tome i da ucestvuje u izradi mog diplomskog neka mi se javi!!

Hvala!!!!

[colorado]

Hocu ja, hocu ja!!

[Ch00pka]

ma ja gotivim kada vidim nekog u vunenim carapama,to mi je skroooz sik,sta protiv zmijskog ujeda:zvezdice: izadjes i cooliras dok ti neko ne pridje i pita te da li si normalan:tange:

[Ch00pka]

:die:postajem agresivna u zadnje vreme i sve me nervira.:dance:ide mi se na neku zurku a nemam vremena:pegla:

[Ch00pka]

niko nista za moje vunene carape? a sto/:machevi:

[KiWi]

Mene ne privlači, ali nemam ništa protiv.

Inače, zanimljivi su mi crossdresseri, osobe koje su nefem (statistika tvrd da je većina crossdresera str8) i koju uživaju u nošenju ženske odeće (tokom celog dana, po kući, dok štrebaju...). Zanimljivo.

[KiWi]

Je l' neko ima onaj flash klip kada mađioničar pogađa da li je momak gay ili str8? .. Pa kad prvoj dvojici kaže ''gay'' a bradatom crossdresseru sa viškom kilograma kaže ''str8'' .. i svi počnu da ga gađaju konzervama jer je kao očito da je namešteno .. a on odgovara ''Statistika pokazuje da je skoro 80% crossdresera str8!'' Ako neko ima, nek prosledi

[*_Eskarina Gejl_*]

Pa sto,meni se bas svidjaju Tranvestiti.
Teatralni su,i totalno mi deluju nekako umetnicki.
ne znam gotivni su...

[Snow_Crystal]

Bez ljutnje ali ja volim curice i to PRAVE curice a ne da ispod suknjice vidim buzdovan...

[Luba]

Originally posted by Snow_Crystal
Bez ljutnje ali ja volim curice i to PRAVE curice a ne da ispod suknjice vidim buzdovan...

Is She Friend or Foe?
The following was inspired by conversations with a dear friend who has been crossdressing since his early teens, and presently continues to struggle with guilt, shame, repression, denial... I hope to give this person and any of you who feel similarly, a more accepting way to relate to your inner woman. You are so beautiful, if only you could see what I see....

****

Dear one, for the past couple of years I have been delving into the psychology of what you are feeling. I have been connecting with special souls who endure the same inner bondage that you know all too well. I have a deep level of empathy for your plight, and from my vantage point, my wish is to convey to you a sense of peace surrounding who you are inside. If you will permit, I will show you a different perspective on this aspect which you have fought so hard against all of your life.

You tell me you wish these feelings were not part of you, and essentially if you could make your inner woman and her desires cease to exist, life would be much easier. This is all very true, yet I suspect that you have spent the last 30+ years wishing she would leave you in peace, trying to stifle her, ignore and deny her, shove her away in a box, yet never managing to quite rid yourself of her presence. I suspect that if it were possible to eradicate her, you would have done so long ago. So let's assume for a moment that she is an integral part of you, one which can not be permanently evicted under any circumstance.

With this in mind, you have two choices… to embrace her, or resist her. In either event she will continue to exist within you, the main difference is how she will make you feel inside and the consequent impact on all other areas of your life. Recognize and embrace her and she has the capacity to bring you inner peace and expanded awareness. Deny and resist her and she will bring the demons of guilt and shame to haunt you.

You can spend the rest of your life trying to crush this aspect of you, or you can reach inside and harness her feminine power in ways that lift you to new heights of awareness and understanding. You can perceive her as a negative element of yourself which is dirty, wrong and shameful… or you can recognize her precious value to your authentic self. Only you have the power to shift your perception of yourself. She can be your greatest gift or your worst curse, depending on how you treat her.

While it is not essential to come out and reveal your truth to anyone unless you choose, it is poison when you lie to yourself, deny yourself, hide in the shadows of your own mind, closed off from your inner light. In such a state of internal misalignment, you slowly whither and die inside, or you spontaneously combust, whichever comes first.

Taming the inner shrew can be a life-long civil war causing endless turmoil, or it can be a harmonious union between your inner male and female working together to function as a more complete human. Once you have acknowledged and accepted this aspect of yourself, you will quickly begin to feel a greater sense of control over your own life and desires.

I urge you to be the first to have compassion for yourself, and embrace your inner woman as a legitimate, valuable and worthy part of you. This does not mean she must become a predominant part of your life, or that radical changes are required, that you should transition, or that she should even necessarily show up on your surface. These are personal choices and each person is different. Rather I am saying that you will feel instant relief the moment you stop fighting and shaming her, and instead begin to celebrate and love her. You are actually very blessed to have her, whether or not you believe so right now.


You are being given the opportunity to foster the self-worth to be True; your reward is transcendence of the shame, guilt, and self-loathing you have felt, into a new light of inner peace, self-acceptance and tranquility. The choice is yours exclusively, only your heart can guide you to what feels right for you.

[katarinadimedici]

Ko bi pohvatao sve te podele travestiti, transexualci idr. te podele su za lekare, a obični ljudi bi trebali biti tolerantniji! Ne kapiram nikako, kao ni netrpeljivost homosexualaca prema trandžama!? Koliko god se razlikovali, zajednički im je problem u društvu! Većina trandži koje poznajem i sa kojima se družim, nisu nikada imale preveliku želju za promenom pola. Mada ima i među njima onih koji ne shvataju da ih svi ne posmatraju kao ćžene, čak ni oni od kojih bi se to očekivalo!
Koliko ljudi ne kapiraju razlike govori primer moje drugarice koja se bavi najstarijim zanatom na svetu:
Jednoga dana je pozvao kršni Crnogorac koji je već koristio njene usluge ( znao je da je travestit), te je mislila da treba uobičajeno da ga "odradi". Skinula se u kupatilu , obukla mrežaste čarape sa crvenim halterima, visoke potpetice, ali je u sobi očekivao šok. Kršni "Đetić" se naguzio preko stola i viče "J.. me, j... me!"- dok je ona užasnuta i zbunjena stajala ne znajući čime bi mogla da obavi tu radnju, jer joj je penis van funkcije. Na sreću njen momak je bio u blizini, a Đetić u extazi nije ni primetio zamenu iza sebe, tako da je ipak uzela honorar.
Ovo često prepričava kao anegdotu, dok se prisutni guše u salvama smeha na njenu imitaciju lađe guzova koja se njiše...No ako neko malo razmisli...?!

[fantastican]

Nedavno sam prvi put upoznao trans curu.
Bilo je nezaboravno iskustvo.
"Riba", ili bolje da ne stavljam znake navoda, je bila lepsa nego pola devojaka koje znam!!
Visoka, zgodna, noge prave, lice tako sexy...
Ono sto me je fasciniralo je njena koza koja je bila taako meka.
A guza... mekana, zenska. Neverovatno.
Mislim da me nejvise kod ovih riba privlaci to sto su tako zenstvene, vole da zavode ( a ja volim da me zavode ) tako su jednostavno sexy zenstvene!

[Loreley]

ukoliko je u pitanju tranvestit, onda sam protiv, ali ako je u pitanju mtf (poput mene), onda je to potpuno ok. Medjutim, ja se ne oblacim kao zensko zato sto ima vremena za to, kad budem krenula na hormonsku terapiju, i posle kad promenim pol.... bice toga...

[KosmickaCestica]

Duso draga,

Svi smo prosli te faze oblacenja, jer je to bio jedini izlaz
iz losih osecaja.. ali generalno govoreci kod M2F osoba
oblacenje nema nikakve veze, a bogami ni seks..

Rec je o dubokom osecaju nesklada..

[Luba]

Originally posted by Loreley
ukoliko je u pitanju tranvestit, onda sam protiv, ali ako je u pitanju mtf (poput mene), onda je to potpuno ok. Medjutim, ja se ne oblacim kao zensko zato sto ima vremena za to, kad budem krenula na hormonsku terapiju, i posle kad promenim pol.... bice toga...

Malo si mi maglovita. Ili jesi ili nisi (lav)

[Gaia]

Originally posted by Luba

Originally posted by Loreley
ukoliko je u pitanju tranvestit, onda sam protiv, ali ako je u pitanju mtf (poput mene), onda je to potpuno ok. Medjutim, ja se ne oblacim kao zensko zato sto ima vremena za to, kad budem krenula na hormonsku terapiju, i posle kad promenim pol.... bice toga...

Malo si mi maglovita. Ili jesi ili nisi (lav)

Oprosti Luba, po čemu točno ti je maglovita? Što to ili jeste ili nije?

[Andre87]

@Luba

Luba, ako se ona oseca kao devojka..zenska odeca joj nije neophodna da to potvrdi. Dakle u pitanju su osecanja..drugo, ako je u fazi preispitivanja i informisanja i to je normalno...
Mozda situacija kod kuce nije takva da ona moze da nosi suknje i proteze na grudima. Ali to svakako ne znaci da je manje zena...Bice vremena, dok se usklade zelje i mogucnosti...

[Luba]

Bas je takvo objasnjenje falilo.
A, brate, i ono sprocum tranika mi nije sasvim ok. I oni su ljudi. Svako je vaseljena za sebe.

Cesto mi pada na pamet jedna scena iz Bladerunner-a, kada NEXUS umire, posto je skoro satr`o Harison Forda. Njegova govorancija (oprostite ako omasim malo, nije mi pri ruci).
I have seen the things that you people wouldn`t belive.
Attack of the starships on the shoulder of Orion.
Flickering C-rays in the dark.
All those moments will be lost in time...
...like tears in the rain.


Naravno, sve yo uz prekrasnu muziku Vangelisa

[Zoe]

Hahahaha, bas ti je primer!

[femme_fatale]

Originally posted by Andre87
@Luba

Luba, ako se ona oseca kao devojka..zenska odeca joj nije neophodna da to potvrdi. Dakle u pitanju su osecanja..drugo, ako je u fazi preispitivanja i informisanja i to je normalno...
Mozda situacija kod kuce nije takva da ona moze da nosi suknje i proteze na grudima. Ali to svakako ne znaci da je manje zena...Bice vremena, dok se usklade zelje i mogucnosti...

Ovo je tačno. Ja dugo nisam ništa nosila žensko, jer prosto, znala sam da me odeća neće učiniti ženom sama po sebi. Nisam želela da budem muškarac koji nosi žensku odeću, niti me je to uzbuđivalo. A i nisam smela, krila sam se. Ali sada sam "pukla"... nastojim da se obuzdam da ne napravim neku glupost, i da održim neku ravnotežu, i ne mogu da se odupirem više. Na ulici ne nosim suknje, ali je dosta toga na meni žensko. A kosa mi je duga... čini mi se da bi se ubila, ili bih nekog ubila, kada bi me naterali da se ošišam. Ali sada sve više ispoljavam sebe i svoju ženstvenost, pa zato i nosim odeću koju nosim, i zato što sve više vidim ženu u ogledalu osećam se bolje, ispunjenije, normalnije. Odeća je deo moje pojave, ne cilj i izvor zadovljstva sam po sebi.

[Luba]

Originally posted by Zoe
Hahahaha, bas ti je primer!

Bljak
Nije ovo bio primer nego ilustracija nase kompleksnosti i prolaznosti.

[Luba]

Originally posted by Niki

Originally posted by Andre87
@Luba

Luba, ako se ona oseca kao devojka..zenska odeca joj nije neophodna da to potvrdi. Dakle u pitanju su osecanja..drugo, ako je u fazi preispitivanja i informisanja i to je normalno...
Mozda situacija kod kuce nije takva da ona moze da nosi suknje i proteze na grudima. Ali to svakako ne znaci da je manje zena...Bice vremena, dok se usklade zelje i mogucnosti...

Ovo je tačno. Ja dugo nisam ništa nosila žensko, jer prosto, znala sam da me odeća neće učiniti ženom sama po sebi. Nisam želela da budem muškarac koji nosi žensku odeću, niti me je to uzbuđivalo. A i nisam smela, krila sam se. Ali sada sam "pukla"... nastojim da se obuzdam da ne napravim neku glupost, i da održim neku ravnotežu, i ne mogu da se odupirem više. Na ulici ne nosim suknje, ali je dosta toga na meni žensko. A kosa mi je duga... čini mi se da bi se ubila, ili bih nekog ubila, kada bi me naterali da se ošišam. Ali sada sve više ispoljavam sebe i svoju ženstvenost, pa zato i nosim odeću koju nosim, i zato što sve više vidim ženu u ogledalu osećam se bolje, ispunjenije, normalnije. Odeća je deo moje pojave, ne cilj i izvor zadovljstva sam po sebi.

Kod mene je pocelo sasvim drukcije, pre vise od pola veka. Osim unutrasnjeg osecaja da nesto tu nije kao kod ostalih derana,
potreba da nosim odecu drugog pola (da li suprotnog? - nesto mi to nije pogodan termit), bila je sve vise neodoljiva.

[KosmickaCestica]

Pa luba.. ja sam se celu osnovnu, srednju skolu
oblacila kad god sam mogla.. svako pre podne
kad sam bila sama kod kuce..

To mi je donosilo neki mir.. unutrasnji..

kasnije sam samo to sve unapredila i uradila
neki comming out.. dakle, depilacije su mi normalna
stvar od srednje skole, cupanje obrvica, farbanje kose..

ali je problem sto to vremenom prestaje da sanira
unutrasnji nemir.. a taj nemir postaje sve jaci i jaci..
tako da ga i sve te aktivnosti vise ne mogu ublaziti..

[Luba]

Originally posted by andjelat
Pa luba.. ja sam se celu osnovnu, srednju skolu
oblacila kad god sam mogla.. svako pre podne
kad sam bila sama kod kuce..

To mi je donosilo neki mir.. unutrasnji..

kasnije sam samo to sve unapredila i uradila
neki comming out.. dakle, depilacije su mi normalna
stvar od srednje skole, cupanje obrvica, farbanje kose..

ali je problem sto to vremenom prestaje da sanira
unutrasnji nemir.. a taj nemir postaje sve jaci i jaci..
tako da ga i sve te aktivnosti vise ne mogu ublaziti..

Tacno, i kostace te sve vise i vise. Bice ti sve teze i teze.
Pogotovu, ako ne prodjes kroz tranziciju.
Za mene je, nazalost, vec odavno je isuvise kasno.
Suvise mnogo godina. Isuvise malo zdravlja preostalo.
Da opet imam priliku, ne bih oklevala da prodjem kroz to sto ti sada prolazis.
Na to sam mislila kod onog... ili jesi ili nisi, ali u i-net kafeu je glasna muzika, puse, placas svaki sat i ne mozes da polako i razlozno izneses misli.
Desi se da te bas i ne shvate. Ali vecini nas i to je u opisu radnog mesta.
Jos jednom bih te samo ohrabrila.
Proci ces sve to i danasnji problemi bice ti daleka proslost.
Desi se u zivotu da te razocara i bracni drug a i deca.
Ne treba niko da te uslovljava. Sledi svoj put. Isplati ce se.
BTW, pocetkom 90-ih i kod nas je zdravstveno osiguranje pokrivalo troskove.
Koliko sam ja skontala, treba nekako doci do Prof. Dr. Save perovica i njegove ekipe. Oni su naj.
Najveci problem je lova! Ima mnogo stvari koje treba uciniti a koje izuzetno mnogo kostaju.