- 10 Dec 2006, 17:41
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"What is Open Fidelity?
Open Fidelity describes a new way of thinking about faithfulness in sexual relationships - a way that doesn't assume that faithfulness means monogamy.
Many people find monogamy impossible but still want to be honest and responsible in their relationships. Open Fidelity is one way to reconcile these two things in one ethical way of living. It is also a good way to enable partners to fulfil their deepest desires in other ways than monogamy.
Fidelity – or faithfulness – basically means keeping the promises you have made. This means:
having your partner's needs in mind in all your decisions
working with your partner to fulfil the deepest desires that you both have
being honest with each other at all times about what you really desire, even if that means sex with someone else
Sexual relationships can be faithful in this sense while allowing partners to pursue what they most desire, even if that means sex with someone outside the relationships. Open fidelity means making realistic promises that you can keep, and then keeping them.
If you are open and faithful, there is a world of possibilities to try. You and your partner (or spouse) could have short flings or longer-term lovers as well as your committed partnership. You could try swinging, going to sex parties or meeting another couple. Or you could seek out several long-term loving relationships - also known as polyamory. "
Zajeban koncept, utopija ili nesto sto je moguce postici?
Open Fidelity describes a new way of thinking about faithfulness in sexual relationships - a way that doesn't assume that faithfulness means monogamy.
Many people find monogamy impossible but still want to be honest and responsible in their relationships. Open Fidelity is one way to reconcile these two things in one ethical way of living. It is also a good way to enable partners to fulfil their deepest desires in other ways than monogamy.
Fidelity – or faithfulness – basically means keeping the promises you have made. This means:
having your partner's needs in mind in all your decisions
working with your partner to fulfil the deepest desires that you both have
being honest with each other at all times about what you really desire, even if that means sex with someone else
Sexual relationships can be faithful in this sense while allowing partners to pursue what they most desire, even if that means sex with someone outside the relationships. Open fidelity means making realistic promises that you can keep, and then keeping them.
If you are open and faithful, there is a world of possibilities to try. You and your partner (or spouse) could have short flings or longer-term lovers as well as your committed partnership. You could try swinging, going to sex parties or meeting another couple. Or you could seek out several long-term loving relationships - also known as polyamory. "
Zajeban koncept, utopija ili nesto sto je moguce postici?
pricao sam o onom drugom delu... 
Ne kazem ja da kod mene i moje partnerke nekada nece biti "heftanja" sa strane,bas naprotiv kao sto si i sama rekla POVERENJE prvo izmedju mene i nje,pa onda dogovor,potrebe i sve ostalo a da ne utice na nasu vezu. Samo kazem da meni to sada nije potrebno a vala nece ni njoj(mislim na moju partnerku). Uglavnom sve ono gore sto si rekla je 
