- 18 Apr 2008, 13:37
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HUMAN ASEXUALITY
Report by Shain Neumeier and Jennifer Lee
ABSTRACT
Sexuality is everywhere in our culture, especially in modern times. From politics to entertainment, it’s nearly unavoidable. Most people equate physical and emotional intimacy as one and the same. There are three known “preferences” of how to express this intimacy, all based on the idea that the physical expression of love is the most important. However, a growing group, having only their experience and a sparse amount of research to cite, claims that there should be a fourth category, one of people who have no sexual preference at all. They call themselves asexual.
Asexuality, in biology, usually refers to the ability of an organism to reproduce without help. In terms of humans, however, there are a variety of definitions coming from different people who recognize the possibility of it, not all of them agreeing. The broadest and most generally agreed upon definition of an asexual is a person who experiences little or no sexual attraction, according to the Asexual Visibility and Education Network (AVEN), the largest web community of asexual people.
There has been research done in other, non-sentient mammals related to asexuality. A recent study involving rats showed that certain male rats that were aggressive with other males showed no sexual interest in females when placed in the same cage with them. Follow-up studies on sheep showed similar results, that small percentages of rams and ewes showed no interest in one another, nor in members of the same sex. How much that can be applied to humans scientifically, though, is still in question.
Several terms are often confused with asexuality, which refers to naturally occurring disinterest in sex that involves no personal choice. Abstinence or celibacy, the conscious choice to not involve oneself sexually for religious or moral reasons, differs in this sense. Frigidity refers to emotional coldness or reserve, implying that lack of interest in sex translates to an inability to feel. Sexual aversion, or revulsion and/or fear related to sex, is classified as a disorder, but the difference is that the former causes a person distress, and it isn’t so much about a lack of desire than about a phobia related to the act. Asexuality is also confused with the inability to have sex (i.e., impotence), rather than a simple lack of desire.
There are already stereotypes related to asexuals, as well as theories as to what causes asexuality. People who don’t understand the concept are quick to jump to the conclusion that asexual people are secretly homosexual, asocial, mentally unstable, coming from broken homes, lonely and unwilling to admit it, overly religious, full of themselves, or some combination of these characteristics. Marijuana, Asperger’s syndrome (a form of autism), certain forms of medication and abnormal IQ have also been cited as causes of asexuality, though these assertions are shaky.
The question of the validity of asexuality is hard to decide, as such a small percentage (roughly 1%) of the population is “asexual.” There are many factors, some nature and some nurture, that could contribute to a disinterest in sex, many of which will be discussed in this project.
PURPOSE
The purpose of this experiment was to research asexuality, establish trends in the asexual community (with regards to religion, location, culture, gender identification, biological sex, marijuana use, Asperger’s syndrome, age, education, self-esteem and family background) and to uphold or debunk myths and attitudes regarding this little-known subject. Though we started out with the much broader and more difficult topic of trying to decide, scientifically, whether or not asexuality could be considered “natural” or whether it could be signs of a disorder or other problem, we had not the time, the background or the references to carry out such a task. However, the subject continued to interest us, so we decided to scale down the project to a more feasible task.
TIMELINE OF WORK DONE
Due to the fact that no timeline/daily log was required for the school science fair, nothing was taken note of in the first round of this project. This is the best we can provide in its place, with exact dates or periods given along side what was accomplished. We apologize for the inconvenience and any issues that could arise from these approximations.
Early Jan.: Preliminary research done, project considered.
10 Jan.: Proposal and letter of permission to John Emmanuel Shirajian, head of Science Department at Ribet Academy, written and submitted; project approved.
10 Jan. - 5 Feb.: Research done, articles collected, survey written, AVEN polls surveyed for possible future use.
5 Feb: Survey posted on Asexual Visibility and Education Network website.
5 Feb. - 26 Feb.: Gathering of poll results, occasional checks on the progress of the survey, updates to J.E. Shirajian, further article and forum research.
26 Feb. - 27 Feb.: Gathering of survey results, interpretation of data for survey and poll data written, first report completed.
9 Mar. - 10 Mar.: Ribet Academy 4th Annual science fair, “Human Asexuality” takes 1st place in the school Psychology division
13 Mar.: Armenian Science Olympiad, “Human Asexuality” does not place in the Biology category.
4 Apr.: Polls updated to reflect recent changes in percentages.
16 Apr.: Entire report updated to reflect new additions and the changes made to make sure all foreseeable possibilities are accounted for.
MATERIALS AND METHODS USED
Due to the fact that asexuality is so uncommon and that research done is sparse, face-to-face interviews, library visits and other such methods were simply unfeasible. Therefore, the experiment was carried out exclusively on the computer, for both research and survey/poll purposes, through the Internet. Various articles and papers on asexuality could be found online, as well as the largest known asexual community, AVEN (the Asexual Visibility and Education Network). In addition to this, we checked forums, discussion communities and other groups online for discussion of the subject hoping for more information, but instead came up with a large number of rumors and informal theories about the subject that were addressed in the project and either shown to have some or very little grounding in reality.
As to how the results will be shown, in addition to this report and the display board, we have a PowerPoint Presentation prepared for the Science Fair displaying what was done and discovered.
We started carrying out the research by looking through the few pieces of literature available on the subject, all of which are relatively recent due to the fact the subject has been obscure for a long time. After getting a grasp on what we were starting on, we posted a survey on AVEN, gathering responses over a period of 3 weeks. The survey was rather disorganized, and though we were able to use it (or rather, specific questions from it), we had to get the majority of data from various polls, also on AVEN, on a variety of subjects that were pertinent to the study. As we came upon new information on trends in the community (i.e., the relatively high rate of intersex people who consider themselves to be asexual), we did more specific research to find out about comparisons between it and the majority of the world. Having done all this, we compiled the research and analyzed the results of the polls and surveys to come up with the conclusion. The polls were updated after the school science fair to reflect the data based on the answers of new respondents, whereas the survey had not picked up any more responses.
POLLS ON ASEXUALITY (As of 4 APR 2005)
Prevalence of Theology - 67 respondents
Monotheist: 31% (21)
Atheist: 29% (19)
Pantheist: 7% (5)
Agnostic: 33% (22)
Religion – 145 respondents
Agnostic/Atheist/Humanist: 34% (50)
Deist: 1% (1)
Unitarian: 2% (2)
Scientologist: 1% (1)
Catholic/Protestant/Messianic Jew/Mormon: 23% (34)
Muslim: 1% (1)
Scientologist: 1% (1)
Jew: 4% (6)
Hindu: 1% (1)
Buddhist / Confucian / Taoist / Shinto: 3% (3)
Pagan (Wicca, Pantheist): 4% (7)
Other (Cults, Jainism, Zoroastrianist, Falun Gong, Bahaist): 25% (39)
Parent’s Relationship – 104 respondents
Still married: 65% (68)
Not married anymore: 30% (31)
They were never married: 5% (5)
Gender (internal sex) – 98 respondents
Masculine: 26% (25)
Feminine: 29% (29)
Bigendered: 32% (31)
No gender: 13% (13)
Biological sex – 150 respondents
Male: 30% (45)
Female: 66% (99)
Intersex/unclassifiable: 4% (6)
“Orientation” – 192 respondents
Hetero-asexual: 36% (70)
Homo-asexual: 14% (28)
Bi-asexual: 21% (40)
No orientation: 17% (33)
Other/changing attraction: 11% (21)
Romance Drive? – 42 respondents
Yes: 54% (23)
No: 43% (18)
Unable to answer: 3% (1)
Geographic location – 166 respondents
United Kingdom: 22% (36)
USA: 43% (72)
Eastern Europe: 1% (2)
Western Europe: 9% (15)
Africa: 0% (0)
Canada: 10% (16)
Other North American country: 2% (3)
South America: 2% (3)
Australia/South Pacific: 6% (11)
Middle East: 0% (0)
Other Asian country: 2% (3)
Other: 3% (5)
Asperger’s Syndrome – 39 respondents
Yes: 13% (5)
No: 46% (16)
Unsure/Possibly: 41% (18)
Marijuana use – 118 respondents
Yes: 35% (40)
No: 65% (78)
IQ – 92 respondents
(Note: IQ results are older, as updated version of the poll can't be found)
70-90: 0% (0)
90-110: 1% (1)
110-130: 17% (16)
130-160: 49% (45)
Don’t know/Don’t care: 33% (30)
Body Image (Female) – 43 respondents
Very negative: 5% (2)
Mildly negative: 35% (15)
Indifferent: 19% (8)
Mildly positive: 32% (14)
Very positive: 9% (4)
Body Image (Male) – 20 respondents
Very negative: 5% (1)
Mildly negative: 25% (5)
Indifferent: 45% (9)
Mildly positive: 20% (4)
Very positive: 5% (1)
Body image (Total, from other polls) – 63 respondents
Very negative: 5% (3)
Mildly negative: 32% (20)
Indifferent: 27% (17)
Mildly positive: 28% (18)
Very positive: 8% (5)
Highest Level of Education – 51 respondents
Some/Still in high school: 7% (4)
Completed high school: 4% (2)
Trades/Apprenticeship: 4% (2)
Some/still in college or university: 43% (22)
Completed college: 20% (10)
Masters/Working on MD: 15% (7)
PhD/Working on PhD: 7% (4)
Self-Declared Sociability – 107 respondents
Gregarious: 7% (7)
Fairly social: 38% (41)
Anti-social: 40% (43)
Misanthropic: 15% (16)
Age – 267 respondents
13-20: 33% (87)
21-30: 44% (119)
31-40: 13% (34)
41-50: 5% (14)
51-60: 4% (10)
61-70: 1% (3)
Over 70: 0% (0)
POLL ANALYSIS
The information provided from the polls was highly valuable (if not sometimes ambiguous) and, while some commonly-held beliefs about asexuality could be disproved by the results, other data from the polls shows that further research is needed, and/or that cultural, age-related and educational differences play a role in the amount to which people are aware or accepting of the possibility of asexuality, if not in its actual prevalence.
ASEXUALITY VS. CELIBACY: Religion
The polls on religion make clear that there is indeed a difference between asexuality and celibacy. In the smaller, broader-in-scope poll of 63 respondents, a majority were non-worshipping people, being either agnostic (33%) or atheist (29%), in comparison to the 38% who were either mono- or polytheist. This is not exactly mirrored by the second poll, as the respondent pool was larger and more specific options were offered. However, the non-believing/non-worshipping group still outnumbered Catholics, Protestants, Mormons and Jews combined, the former having 34% of the vote in comparison to the latter’s 23%, and, though atheists, humanists and agnostics were not in the majority in comparison to the faithful, they made up the largest single category. Also of note is that Buddhism, another religion sometimes associated with celibacy, was grouped together with other far-east religions that in total only received 3% of the vote. Meanwhile, Judaism, which encourages procreation even in its priesthood, had only 4% of the respondents as its followers. Admittedly, this poll has flaws (i.e., how many of the group noted above were Catholics as opposed to the number who were Protestants, what with the two’s different views on celibacy?), and this would require further research. However, the fact that so many asexuals consider themselves non-religious, or part of a cult or smaller religious group (29%) implies that religion and faith-based morality plays a small, if not nonexistent, part in one’s identity as an asexual.
ROMANCE AND ORIENTATION
Some asexuals consider themselves to have an “orientation” within asexuality, i.e., hetero-asexual, homo-asexual, bi-asexual, and, of course, a-asexual. This usually refers to their romantic and emotional preference for one gender or another. According to one poll, 54% of asexuals claim to have a “romance drive,” a need for non-sexual love, while 43% claim not to need such companionship (the other 3% simply couldn’t seem to decide). A poll that surveyed asexuals’ “orientation” revealed that hetero(a)sexuality is not as prevalent in this community as in the rest of the world. While homosexuals are assumed to make up about 2-3% of the human population at large, 14% of the 192-strong respondent pool say they prefer same-sex relationships, and even more, 21%, consider themselves to be “bi,” preferring neither over the other. A good 11%, astonishingly, says that their attractions change over time, and that they don’t fit into any of the above categories because of it. (The other 17% in said poll said that they had no interest in said relationships.)
SEX, GENDER AND ASEXUALITY
It would seem from the above-mentioned polls, and in fact the whole idea of asexuality, that gender and sex (the former being mentality, the latter being biology) would be not an issue in the asexual community. This is echoed in the polls, but not completely. A majority, 55% of respondents, identify with one gender or another (information as to whether or not it’s the one corresponding to their biological sex is not available), rather than with both or neither. Several things about the gender and sex polls are worth noting, however. The first is that, while the Intersex Society of North America asserts that approximately 1 out of 1500 to 1 out of 2000 people are born as intersex (neither male or female), 4%, or hundreds of times more than average in the general population, of asexuals checked “intersex” as being their biological sex. For this seemingly small percentage of the community, their biology (nature) could very well have a profound influence on their sexuality, and the societal influences related to gender (nurture) could further that. Secondly, while only 30% of respondents for the biological sex poll responded with identifying themselves as male, more than twice that labeled themselves female. Why this is would require further investigation (possibly an entire other project), especially when roughly equal amounts of people labeled themselves in the gender poll as being masculine or feminine (3% more people identified themselves as being feminine than did masculine). The 45% people who responded in the gender poll by saying that they didn’t identify with either traditional gender also would merit a great deal of study, especially as to whether their asexuality results in a significant lack of gender identification or vice-versa. Furthermore, another poll would be necessary to see what kind of overlap there was, in terms of corresponding or differing sex and gender identification as, a) Fewer people responded to the gender poll than the sex one, and Even if everyone who did reply to one replied to the other, there’s no way of knowing how each individual responded.
GEOGRAPHY AND THE PREVALENCE OF ASEXUALITY
Due to its disorganized format, the poll on ethnicity was not used here. However, the unequal geographic distribution of asexuals, according to a 166-person poll, was astounding. The industrialized nations and regions, led by the U.S. with an enormous 43% of the respondents, are the most asexual, if the poll is truly representative. However, when the entire continent of Africa has less asexuals present (0%, in fact) than the United Kingdom, with 22%, the validity of such a poll comes into question. The following theories might help to explain the reasons for this, though, again, an entire separate project would be needed to confirm two of the three:
-The countries with the most English speakers generally had the largest proportions of asexuality, according to the poll. This is probably resulting from the fact that a separate forum is given to non-English speakers.
-The more wealthy and industrialized a country, the more likely people will be to have computers with which to access such a poll. Some countries don’t have good systems of electricity, while others have populations that are too poor to afford such luxuries. Some fundamentalist-driven and totalitarian governments (i.e. Saudi Arabia) apparently have bans on internet use or the use of portions of the internet that go against the ideology of the ruling class.
-The more industrialized countries are generally the more liberal in terms of gender and sexual identification. Whereas the U.S., Canada, Britain and most of Western Europe are (generally more) open to nontraditional lifestyles, the religious and cultural views prevalent in such regions as the Middle East and Africa would make identifying as asexual less likely.
A cross-cultural comparison in asexuality, therefore, is not truly available here, because the poll most likely isn’t truly representative of the geographic face of asexuality.
IS ASEXUALITY CAUSED BY…?
Parental strife
Another surprise provided by the polls was that many of them had parents who were still married. A stereotype of asexuality is that they had “bad examples” of sexual relationships, provided from an unstable home life. However, whereas the divorce rate in the United States is at 50%, 65% of asexuals said that their parents were still married, while only 30% had divorced parents, and a minute 5% were illegitimate. Such an overwhelming majority would suggest that the stereotype is unfounded. However, one must take into the account that 1) some parents don’t divorce on principle, regardless of the state of the marriage, 2) several respondents commented that one parent had died while still married, and 3) such a broad question allows for a lot of variety.
Marijuana use
Low sex drive has been in some cases attributed to use of marijuana, as have other drugs. However, only a little more than a third of asexuals have actually used marijuana, according to one poll, and the poll did not take note on whether or not a person considered themselves asexual before or after doing the drug. (Note: There were options of how much drug use there had been, and how frequent it had occurred, which were too various and indistinct to use based on a given poll respondent’s interpretation.)
Asperger’s Syndrome
Asperger’s, a social disorder that is a mild, high-functioning form of autism, has also been tied to asexuality and delayed sexual development. Though only a small pool of respondents answered in a poll related to Asperger’s, the percentage that said that they indeed had Asperger’s (13%), is incredibly high in comparison to the 0.0036% of the general population who has the disorder. Another, even larger 41% said that they were “unsure” or that it was possible that they had the disorder. While 13% is not nearly enough to say that Asperger’s is a leading factor in asexuality, the fact that it’s hundreds of times more prevalent in this community than it is in the rest of the world suggests that it indeed does play a role.
High IQ
What the administrators of AVEN call “the myth of asexual superiority” is another one of the stereotypes not based on research but nonetheless prevalent. Many seem to think that without the “distraction” of sexual thoughts and feelings, one has time to focus on other things. Believe it or not, a poll of 92 respondents echo this sentiment: 63% of respondents report having an above-average IQ ranging from a 110 to a 160 (the poll didn’t keep track of IQs above this point), and no one answered that they had an IQ lower than 90. There seems to be a correlation, if indeed this poll is accurate, though a cause-and-effect relationship isn’t clear.
Poor self-esteem
Yet another informally cited cause of asexuality is low self-esteem, especially related to how one looks, that causes one to think that since they can’t find a lover, they don’t want one. However, in polls about body image taken with both males and females, most people in both categories rated themselves as having a moderately negative to moderately positive body image (with indifferent in between) rather than as holding any extreme views of themselves. In total, only 3 people out of 63, or 5%, said that they had a “very negative” body image, whereas 8% said that they had a “very positive” one. However, the number of people who said that they had a “mildly negative” body image was slightly more than was that of people who had a “mildly positive” view, with percentages of 32% to 28%. The main gender gap, when looking at the breakdown of men’s responses and women’s was that 45% of men, in comparison to 19% of women, were indifferent when it came to how they thought they looked, and that the amount of women who viewed themselves as ugly was 10% higher than that of men. The fact that more people had an indifferent or close-to-indifferent view of their bodies, rather than an extreme view one way or another, suggests that the physical side of oneself is not so much a cause of asexuality in that they obsess over it, but because it’s unimportant or of less importance to members of the asexual community.
Age/Experience
A minute few visitors to AVEN have suggested that asexuality is a “phase” that immature teenagers who feel socially awkward go through in an attempt to glorify their lack of sexual maturity by giving it a fancy name, and state that these people are too naïve and uneducated to see that they’re really just sexual like everyone else. An exact third of poll respondents are, in fact, in their teenage years (13-20). However, in the poll, only 7% of people were still in or had dropped out of high school, the exact same percentage of respondents who had or were working on a PhD. The largest portion of asexuals, according to the polls, are in their 20s (44%), and the number of people who declare themselves to be nonsexual starts to decline shortly after, with only 9% of respondents being over the age of 40. Education-wise, 63% of people are working on, dropped out a bit before or obtained a four-year college education, while 22% went farther than that (Masters and PhD) and 4% went to trade school. This generational and educational difference could be seen, instead of being the actual reality, as being a product of the way younger generations, especially college-educated people, tend to think of sexuality. Whereas senior citizens (60 or older) grew up in a time where sex was a private issue that was not discussed and was meant for the purpose of reproduction rather than for pleasure, today’s MTV culture puts a large pressure on young people to start dating, and society is more open to other persuasions than that of heterosexual monogamy. Liberal arts colleges, especially, are almost notorious for being socially progressive, both in terms of professors and students, and encourage both sexual exploration and diversity of orientations without prejudice, and provide more outlets and services for sexual minorities (i.e., straight-gay alliances, tolerance organizations) than do high schools. This could very easily lead to more college-educated people knowing about asexuality and being willing to label themselves as asexual.
Social ineptitude
The online slang dictionary urbandictionary.com used the sniping definition of AVEN as being a community of life’s losers, people who justify their sorry existence of living in their parents’ basements by “brainwashing” others to believe they’re part of a special category because they couldn’t fit in with others. This speaks for many other people, who view asexuals as either shy neurotics who can’t seem to get along with others or misanthropic narcissists who look down at everyone else. However, in labeling themselves, most asexuals declared themselves to be “fairly social” (38%) or “anti-social” (40%), with only 15% going so far as to label themselves “misanthropic.” The other 7% classified themselves as “gregarious.” As usual, the large majority stuck to a moderate response rather than an extreme one way or another, which could mean a host of things that would pertain more to individuals than the group at large.
SURVEY QUESTIONS
1) How long have you known you're asexual?
2) Have you been diagnosed with any sort of sexual disorder, mental or physical?
3) Have you been diagnosed with any sort of personality disorder?
4) Do you take any sort of medications? (If so, please list)
5) Have you ever felt sexually attracted to anyone of either gender?
6) Have you ever been in a sexual relationship?
7) If so, did you realize you were asexual during or after this relationship?
8) On a scale of 1-10, rate the stability of your parents' marriage.
9) Did you come from a family background other than traditional two-parent? If so, describe.
10) Have you or anyone in your family been sexually abused or assaulted?
11) Are you in anyway bothered by your asexuality?
12) Have you ever enjoyed or wanted sex?
13) Are you open to the idea that you'll find an enjoyable sexual relationship in the future?
14) Do you have any sexual interest in non-humans?
15) Do you consider yourself (choose all that apply):
Aromantic
Asocial
Androgynous
Aesthetically attracted to others
Sexually attracted, but not driven to act
16) Are you or were you a part of any religious organization that advocated chastity or celibacy?
17) Was there any physical or emotional abuse in your childhood home?
18) On a scale of 1-10, rate your own:
-Looks
-Social skills
-Sense of style
-Mental wellbeing
-Health
-Intelligence
19) Do you yourself see asexuality as being as valid an orientation as hetero, homo and bisexuality?
20) Please leave any extra information that you would think to be useful here.
SURVEY RESULTS
The survey went on for 3 weeks, from 5 February to 26 February, on the AVEN Questions and Answers forum board. There were 19 questions and one free response on the original survey, as shown on the questions page. Only select questions were used, for the following reasons:
-Not all the questions allowed for concise, clear answers that could be categorized.
-Many respondents didn’t give simple answers to simple questions.
-I abridged my project, making several questions unnecessary.
-The poll answered several of the questions in a more efficient way than did the survey.
Participants: 39
Questions used: 5, 6, 8, 11, 12, 14, 15, 18
Have you ever felt sexually attracted to anyone of either gender?
Yes: 15% (6)
No: 85% (33)
Have you ever been in a sexual relationship?
Yes: 18% (7)
No: 82% (32)
On a scale of 1-10, rate the stability of your parents’ marriage.
1: 7% (3)
2: 0% (0)
3: 3% (1)
4: 5% (2)
5: 5% (2)
6: 0% (0)
7: 3% (1)
8: 8% (3)
9: 13% (5)
10: 36% (14)
There was no marriage: 5% (2)
I don’t know: 15% (6)
Are you in anyway bothered by your asexuality?
Yes: 26% (10)
No: 74% (29)
Have you ever enjoyed or wanted sex?
Yes: 23% (9)
No: 77% (30)
(Yes includes people who said yes to one and no to the other)
Do you have any sexual interest in nonhumans?
Yes: 0% (0)
No: 100% (39)
Do you consider yourself (choose all that apply):
Aromantic: 28% (11)
Asocial: 33% (13)
Androgynous: 38% (15)
Aesthetically attracted to others: 77% (30)
Sexually attracted, but not driven to act: 10% (4)
On a scale of 1-10, rate your own:
Looks:
1: 0% (0)
2: 0% (0)
3: 2% (1)
4: 8% (3)
5: 23% (9)
6: 18% (7)
7: 28% (11)
8: 13% (5)
9: 3% (1)
10: 3% (1)
No response: 2% (1)
Social skills:
1: 2% (1)
2: 0% (0)
3: 8% (3)
4: 28% (11)
5: 18% (7)
6: 18% (7)
7: 13% (5)
8: 3% (1)
9: 5% (2)
10: 3% (1)
No response: 2% (1)
Sense of style:
1: 8% (3)
2: 8% (3)
3: 8% (3)
4: 8% (3)
5: 23% (9)
6: 15% (6)
7: 10% (4)
8: 8% (3)
9: 5% (2)
10: 5% (2)
No response: 2% (1)
Mental well-being:
1: 0% (0)
2: 5% (2)
3: 2% (1)
4: 10% (4)
5: 13% (5)
6: 13% (5)
7: 13% (5)
8: 8% (3)
9: 18% (7)
10: 13% (5)
No response: 5% (2)
Health:
1: 0% (0)
2: 0% (0)
3: 5% (2)
4: 5% (2)
5: 8% (3)
6: 8% (3)
7: 23% (9)
8: 20% (8)
9: 20% (8)
10: 8% (3)
No response: 3% (1)
Intelligence:
1: 0% (0)
2: 0% (0)
3: 0% (0)
4: 0% (0)
5: 2% (1)
6: 2% (1)
7: 13% (5)
8: 28% (11)
9: 33% (13)
10: 20% (8)
No response: 2% (1)
SURVEY ANALYSIS
The results of the survey taken on AVEN’s Question and Answer forum were not as surprising as those of the polls, and often concurred with them. The poll was taken for 3 weeks and 2 days, from the 5th to the 26th of February. It had 19 questions and a free response space provided. It got 39 responses over that period of time (not counting those who replied to other people’s posts). Only a select group of questions were used here, either because the others were too subjective, the respondents consistently missed the point or made their answers unclear, or because the polls answered certain questions better and provided for easier analysis.
DEBUNKING THE “BROKEN HOME ASEXUAL” MYTH
The survey backed up what the polls had to say about the stability of marriage between parents of asexuals. 36% said that their parents had a “perfect” marriage, a 10 on a 1-10 scale of stability. Less than 10% said that their parents’ relationship was less than a 6 on that scale. Furthermore, many noted that, though their parents had divorced early on, they had not been bitter or hateful about it, and some even said that their parents were still friends. The final piece of news in this is that only 2 people, or 5% of the respondents, said that their parents had never married. With both the polls and the survey stating that generally asexuals come from good, stable homes, it’s safe to say that the idea that asexuals simply haven’t had good examples set for them is unfounded.
ONCE ASEXUAL, ALWAYS ASEXUAL?
This would seem to be the case, seeing that over 80% said that not only had they never been in a sexual relationship, but that they’d never felt attraction to either sex. (One person had said that though they felt no attraction, they had been in a sexual relationship, but otherwise, there was a consistency in answers to the two questions.) Furthermore, 77% had said that they had never desired or enjoyed sex, ruling out the possibility that other factors, such as marijuana use, traumatic sexual experiences or the taking of libido-reducing medication, had influenced their sexual preference, or rather lack thereof.
The idea that a psychological disorder such as sexual aversion disorder (which entails that someone had desire and experiences anxiety as a result of being disgusted by sex) plays a factor was also disproved by the fact that 74% of asexuals said that they were not bothered by their lack of interest. The 26% that said that their lack of interest did bother them cited loneliness, feelings of isolation from the majority of the world and anxiety related to finding nonsexual companionship as the cause of their distress over it, rather than the actual lack of interest itself. Much of this 26% answered yes to the question of whether they had felt sexual desire at one point, saying in their comments that they had faked sexuality and tried to convince themselves that they did have a traditional orientation to fit in.
CATEGORIZATIONS WITHIN ASEXUALITY
Though the concept of having no sexuality is often assumed to be equitable with having less emotional capability and an insensitivity to aesthetic beauty, the survey suggests the opposite. Only 18% considered themselves to be “aromantic,” or being without the wish for a loving relationship, and 77% claim that they feel an aesthetic, nonsexual attraction to others, similar to looking at a beautiful painting, and recognize what looks good in other people. Yet another group, 10% of respondents, said that they have the odd combination of feeling sexually attracted to other people, but having no desire to have such contact with them for one reason or another.
A good 38% of people consider themselves to be mentally androgynous, or having a gender that shares qualities of males and females. This is not surprising, what with gender and sexuality being closely tied, and this result very closely echoes the figures in the gender poll about how many people considered themselves to be independent of either gender. However, many who responded that they did not consider themselves androgynous said that they strongly identify with the gender corresponding to their biological sex, perhaps answering the question of overlap raised by the gender and sex polls.
HOW PREVALENT ARE NONHUMAN SEXUAL INTERESTS?
Considering that 100% of respondents responded in the negative to a question of whether they have nonhuman interests (i.e., fetishes, bestiality, etc.), and that many expressed revulsion at the idea, it’s almost a sure thing that sexual interests involving things other than people isn’t an issue in the asexual community.
IS ASEXUALITY THE RESULT OF LOW SELF ESTEEM?
Another one of the assumptions made about asexuality is that those who claim to be part of that community suffer from an incredible self-esteem problem that leads to the conclusion that, since they can’t get a significant other because they’re too ugly, stupid, unhealthy, or whatever else, that they simply “won’t want it.” However insightful this theory may be, it hardly holds true. Asexuals consider themselves highly intelligent: no respondent put down that they believed they were less than a 5 on a 1-10 scale of intelligence, and slightly more than 80% believed that they were an 8 or above (20% believe they are a 10 on that scale). Most asexuals also consider themselves to be quite (physically) healthy, a 63% majority of them ranking themselves as a 7-9 on a 1-10 scale. Mental health and taste and style were very mixed, there being no clear majority of people who considered themselves to be either seriously lacking or superb in either category. Most people, when ranking themselves on a scale of 1-10 in regards to their looks and social skills (the things that are most often thought to be lacking in asexuals), tended to lean towards the middle, the largest portions labeling themselves as 4s through 6s. There was no one category where extremely low self-esteem was shown, though the first two show well enough that the asexual community doesn’t suffer from such an affliction. It might be useful to note that people who consistently chose low or high rankings were aware of having either a high or low self-esteem, and put that in their comments.
CONCLUSION
While showing an unusually high tendency toward certain traits and situations than do the majority of the world, the asexual community does not show itself to be dramatically different in all respects from it. Often, what was expected based on broadly held conceptions proved false, while things that would seem ordinary and nothing to be astounded by were made important when compared to what figures were outside the asexual community.
However, there are two things that could have been improved in the researching and execution of this project. The most glaring is the fact that some of the questions in the survey were subjective and hard to use for statistical purposes. This led to confusion on the parts of the respondents, and it made the survey unusable to an extent. The second thing that would’ve made this experiment more conclusive is a more effective polling system than the AVEN system allowed for: one that would’ve allowed for seeing how individuals voted on each poll to prevent confusion related to how data combined and conflicted between different polls; one that would have an equal number of respondents for all available polls; and one that was able to show the true cultural and geographic makeup of the community.
While the connections between religion, education, low self-esteem and a bad family life with asexuality were disproved quite thoroughly by the polls and surveys provided, there are still questions left to be answered. Is the astounding rate of occurrence of Asperger’s Syndrome in the community significant enough to prove a definite connection between it and asexuality? If indeed there is a correlation between asexuality and high IQ, is there any sort of cause-and-effect relationship? Can the use of marijuana truly be attributed to all-out asexuality, or simply to a reduced libido? To answer all these questions thoroughly would take much more research and resources than would be available for a high school science fair project. However, if human asexuality gains scientific recognition as an issue worthy of investigation, these questions will most likely be answered eventually.
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Report by Shain Neumeier and Jennifer Lee
ABSTRACT
Sexuality is everywhere in our culture, especially in modern times. From politics to entertainment, it’s nearly unavoidable. Most people equate physical and emotional intimacy as one and the same. There are three known “preferences” of how to express this intimacy, all based on the idea that the physical expression of love is the most important. However, a growing group, having only their experience and a sparse amount of research to cite, claims that there should be a fourth category, one of people who have no sexual preference at all. They call themselves asexual.
Asexuality, in biology, usually refers to the ability of an organism to reproduce without help. In terms of humans, however, there are a variety of definitions coming from different people who recognize the possibility of it, not all of them agreeing. The broadest and most generally agreed upon definition of an asexual is a person who experiences little or no sexual attraction, according to the Asexual Visibility and Education Network (AVEN), the largest web community of asexual people.
There has been research done in other, non-sentient mammals related to asexuality. A recent study involving rats showed that certain male rats that were aggressive with other males showed no sexual interest in females when placed in the same cage with them. Follow-up studies on sheep showed similar results, that small percentages of rams and ewes showed no interest in one another, nor in members of the same sex. How much that can be applied to humans scientifically, though, is still in question.
Several terms are often confused with asexuality, which refers to naturally occurring disinterest in sex that involves no personal choice. Abstinence or celibacy, the conscious choice to not involve oneself sexually for religious or moral reasons, differs in this sense. Frigidity refers to emotional coldness or reserve, implying that lack of interest in sex translates to an inability to feel. Sexual aversion, or revulsion and/or fear related to sex, is classified as a disorder, but the difference is that the former causes a person distress, and it isn’t so much about a lack of desire than about a phobia related to the act. Asexuality is also confused with the inability to have sex (i.e., impotence), rather than a simple lack of desire.
There are already stereotypes related to asexuals, as well as theories as to what causes asexuality. People who don’t understand the concept are quick to jump to the conclusion that asexual people are secretly homosexual, asocial, mentally unstable, coming from broken homes, lonely and unwilling to admit it, overly religious, full of themselves, or some combination of these characteristics. Marijuana, Asperger’s syndrome (a form of autism), certain forms of medication and abnormal IQ have also been cited as causes of asexuality, though these assertions are shaky.
The question of the validity of asexuality is hard to decide, as such a small percentage (roughly 1%) of the population is “asexual.” There are many factors, some nature and some nurture, that could contribute to a disinterest in sex, many of which will be discussed in this project.
PURPOSE
The purpose of this experiment was to research asexuality, establish trends in the asexual community (with regards to religion, location, culture, gender identification, biological sex, marijuana use, Asperger’s syndrome, age, education, self-esteem and family background) and to uphold or debunk myths and attitudes regarding this little-known subject. Though we started out with the much broader and more difficult topic of trying to decide, scientifically, whether or not asexuality could be considered “natural” or whether it could be signs of a disorder or other problem, we had not the time, the background or the references to carry out such a task. However, the subject continued to interest us, so we decided to scale down the project to a more feasible task.
TIMELINE OF WORK DONE
Due to the fact that no timeline/daily log was required for the school science fair, nothing was taken note of in the first round of this project. This is the best we can provide in its place, with exact dates or periods given along side what was accomplished. We apologize for the inconvenience and any issues that could arise from these approximations.
Early Jan.: Preliminary research done, project considered.
10 Jan.: Proposal and letter of permission to John Emmanuel Shirajian, head of Science Department at Ribet Academy, written and submitted; project approved.
10 Jan. - 5 Feb.: Research done, articles collected, survey written, AVEN polls surveyed for possible future use.
5 Feb: Survey posted on Asexual Visibility and Education Network website.
5 Feb. - 26 Feb.: Gathering of poll results, occasional checks on the progress of the survey, updates to J.E. Shirajian, further article and forum research.
26 Feb. - 27 Feb.: Gathering of survey results, interpretation of data for survey and poll data written, first report completed.
9 Mar. - 10 Mar.: Ribet Academy 4th Annual science fair, “Human Asexuality” takes 1st place in the school Psychology division
13 Mar.: Armenian Science Olympiad, “Human Asexuality” does not place in the Biology category.
4 Apr.: Polls updated to reflect recent changes in percentages.
16 Apr.: Entire report updated to reflect new additions and the changes made to make sure all foreseeable possibilities are accounted for.
MATERIALS AND METHODS USED
Due to the fact that asexuality is so uncommon and that research done is sparse, face-to-face interviews, library visits and other such methods were simply unfeasible. Therefore, the experiment was carried out exclusively on the computer, for both research and survey/poll purposes, through the Internet. Various articles and papers on asexuality could be found online, as well as the largest known asexual community, AVEN (the Asexual Visibility and Education Network). In addition to this, we checked forums, discussion communities and other groups online for discussion of the subject hoping for more information, but instead came up with a large number of rumors and informal theories about the subject that were addressed in the project and either shown to have some or very little grounding in reality.
As to how the results will be shown, in addition to this report and the display board, we have a PowerPoint Presentation prepared for the Science Fair displaying what was done and discovered.
We started carrying out the research by looking through the few pieces of literature available on the subject, all of which are relatively recent due to the fact the subject has been obscure for a long time. After getting a grasp on what we were starting on, we posted a survey on AVEN, gathering responses over a period of 3 weeks. The survey was rather disorganized, and though we were able to use it (or rather, specific questions from it), we had to get the majority of data from various polls, also on AVEN, on a variety of subjects that were pertinent to the study. As we came upon new information on trends in the community (i.e., the relatively high rate of intersex people who consider themselves to be asexual), we did more specific research to find out about comparisons between it and the majority of the world. Having done all this, we compiled the research and analyzed the results of the polls and surveys to come up with the conclusion. The polls were updated after the school science fair to reflect the data based on the answers of new respondents, whereas the survey had not picked up any more responses.
POLLS ON ASEXUALITY (As of 4 APR 2005)
Prevalence of Theology - 67 respondents
Monotheist: 31% (21)
Atheist: 29% (19)
Pantheist: 7% (5)
Agnostic: 33% (22)
Religion – 145 respondents
Agnostic/Atheist/Humanist: 34% (50)
Deist: 1% (1)
Unitarian: 2% (2)
Scientologist: 1% (1)
Catholic/Protestant/Messianic Jew/Mormon: 23% (34)
Muslim: 1% (1)
Scientologist: 1% (1)
Jew: 4% (6)
Hindu: 1% (1)
Buddhist / Confucian / Taoist / Shinto: 3% (3)
Pagan (Wicca, Pantheist): 4% (7)
Other (Cults, Jainism, Zoroastrianist, Falun Gong, Bahaist): 25% (39)
Parent’s Relationship – 104 respondents
Still married: 65% (68)
Not married anymore: 30% (31)
They were never married: 5% (5)
Gender (internal sex) – 98 respondents
Masculine: 26% (25)
Feminine: 29% (29)
Bigendered: 32% (31)
No gender: 13% (13)
Biological sex – 150 respondents
Male: 30% (45)
Female: 66% (99)
Intersex/unclassifiable: 4% (6)
“Orientation” – 192 respondents
Hetero-asexual: 36% (70)
Homo-asexual: 14% (28)
Bi-asexual: 21% (40)
No orientation: 17% (33)
Other/changing attraction: 11% (21)
Romance Drive? – 42 respondents
Yes: 54% (23)
No: 43% (18)
Unable to answer: 3% (1)
Geographic location – 166 respondents
United Kingdom: 22% (36)
USA: 43% (72)
Eastern Europe: 1% (2)
Western Europe: 9% (15)
Africa: 0% (0)
Canada: 10% (16)
Other North American country: 2% (3)
South America: 2% (3)
Australia/South Pacific: 6% (11)
Middle East: 0% (0)
Other Asian country: 2% (3)
Other: 3% (5)
Asperger’s Syndrome – 39 respondents
Yes: 13% (5)
No: 46% (16)
Unsure/Possibly: 41% (18)
Marijuana use – 118 respondents
Yes: 35% (40)
No: 65% (78)
IQ – 92 respondents
(Note: IQ results are older, as updated version of the poll can't be found)
70-90: 0% (0)
90-110: 1% (1)
110-130: 17% (16)
130-160: 49% (45)
Don’t know/Don’t care: 33% (30)
Body Image (Female) – 43 respondents
Very negative: 5% (2)
Mildly negative: 35% (15)
Indifferent: 19% (8)
Mildly positive: 32% (14)
Very positive: 9% (4)
Body Image (Male) – 20 respondents
Very negative: 5% (1)
Mildly negative: 25% (5)
Indifferent: 45% (9)
Mildly positive: 20% (4)
Very positive: 5% (1)
Body image (Total, from other polls) – 63 respondents
Very negative: 5% (3)
Mildly negative: 32% (20)
Indifferent: 27% (17)
Mildly positive: 28% (18)
Very positive: 8% (5)
Highest Level of Education – 51 respondents
Some/Still in high school: 7% (4)
Completed high school: 4% (2)
Trades/Apprenticeship: 4% (2)
Some/still in college or university: 43% (22)
Completed college: 20% (10)
Masters/Working on MD: 15% (7)
PhD/Working on PhD: 7% (4)
Self-Declared Sociability – 107 respondents
Gregarious: 7% (7)
Fairly social: 38% (41)
Anti-social: 40% (43)
Misanthropic: 15% (16)
Age – 267 respondents
13-20: 33% (87)
21-30: 44% (119)
31-40: 13% (34)
41-50: 5% (14)
51-60: 4% (10)
61-70: 1% (3)
Over 70: 0% (0)
POLL ANALYSIS
The information provided from the polls was highly valuable (if not sometimes ambiguous) and, while some commonly-held beliefs about asexuality could be disproved by the results, other data from the polls shows that further research is needed, and/or that cultural, age-related and educational differences play a role in the amount to which people are aware or accepting of the possibility of asexuality, if not in its actual prevalence.
ASEXUALITY VS. CELIBACY: Religion
The polls on religion make clear that there is indeed a difference between asexuality and celibacy. In the smaller, broader-in-scope poll of 63 respondents, a majority were non-worshipping people, being either agnostic (33%) or atheist (29%), in comparison to the 38% who were either mono- or polytheist. This is not exactly mirrored by the second poll, as the respondent pool was larger and more specific options were offered. However, the non-believing/non-worshipping group still outnumbered Catholics, Protestants, Mormons and Jews combined, the former having 34% of the vote in comparison to the latter’s 23%, and, though atheists, humanists and agnostics were not in the majority in comparison to the faithful, they made up the largest single category. Also of note is that Buddhism, another religion sometimes associated with celibacy, was grouped together with other far-east religions that in total only received 3% of the vote. Meanwhile, Judaism, which encourages procreation even in its priesthood, had only 4% of the respondents as its followers. Admittedly, this poll has flaws (i.e., how many of the group noted above were Catholics as opposed to the number who were Protestants, what with the two’s different views on celibacy?), and this would require further research. However, the fact that so many asexuals consider themselves non-religious, or part of a cult or smaller religious group (29%) implies that religion and faith-based morality plays a small, if not nonexistent, part in one’s identity as an asexual.
ROMANCE AND ORIENTATION
Some asexuals consider themselves to have an “orientation” within asexuality, i.e., hetero-asexual, homo-asexual, bi-asexual, and, of course, a-asexual. This usually refers to their romantic and emotional preference for one gender or another. According to one poll, 54% of asexuals claim to have a “romance drive,” a need for non-sexual love, while 43% claim not to need such companionship (the other 3% simply couldn’t seem to decide). A poll that surveyed asexuals’ “orientation” revealed that hetero(a)sexuality is not as prevalent in this community as in the rest of the world. While homosexuals are assumed to make up about 2-3% of the human population at large, 14% of the 192-strong respondent pool say they prefer same-sex relationships, and even more, 21%, consider themselves to be “bi,” preferring neither over the other. A good 11%, astonishingly, says that their attractions change over time, and that they don’t fit into any of the above categories because of it. (The other 17% in said poll said that they had no interest in said relationships.)
SEX, GENDER AND ASEXUALITY
It would seem from the above-mentioned polls, and in fact the whole idea of asexuality, that gender and sex (the former being mentality, the latter being biology) would be not an issue in the asexual community. This is echoed in the polls, but not completely. A majority, 55% of respondents, identify with one gender or another (information as to whether or not it’s the one corresponding to their biological sex is not available), rather than with both or neither. Several things about the gender and sex polls are worth noting, however. The first is that, while the Intersex Society of North America asserts that approximately 1 out of 1500 to 1 out of 2000 people are born as intersex (neither male or female), 4%, or hundreds of times more than average in the general population, of asexuals checked “intersex” as being their biological sex. For this seemingly small percentage of the community, their biology (nature) could very well have a profound influence on their sexuality, and the societal influences related to gender (nurture) could further that. Secondly, while only 30% of respondents for the biological sex poll responded with identifying themselves as male, more than twice that labeled themselves female. Why this is would require further investigation (possibly an entire other project), especially when roughly equal amounts of people labeled themselves in the gender poll as being masculine or feminine (3% more people identified themselves as being feminine than did masculine). The 45% people who responded in the gender poll by saying that they didn’t identify with either traditional gender also would merit a great deal of study, especially as to whether their asexuality results in a significant lack of gender identification or vice-versa. Furthermore, another poll would be necessary to see what kind of overlap there was, in terms of corresponding or differing sex and gender identification as, a) Fewer people responded to the gender poll than the sex one, and Even if everyone who did reply to one replied to the other, there’s no way of knowing how each individual responded.
GEOGRAPHY AND THE PREVALENCE OF ASEXUALITY
Due to its disorganized format, the poll on ethnicity was not used here. However, the unequal geographic distribution of asexuals, according to a 166-person poll, was astounding. The industrialized nations and regions, led by the U.S. with an enormous 43% of the respondents, are the most asexual, if the poll is truly representative. However, when the entire continent of Africa has less asexuals present (0%, in fact) than the United Kingdom, with 22%, the validity of such a poll comes into question. The following theories might help to explain the reasons for this, though, again, an entire separate project would be needed to confirm two of the three:
-The countries with the most English speakers generally had the largest proportions of asexuality, according to the poll. This is probably resulting from the fact that a separate forum is given to non-English speakers.
-The more wealthy and industrialized a country, the more likely people will be to have computers with which to access such a poll. Some countries don’t have good systems of electricity, while others have populations that are too poor to afford such luxuries. Some fundamentalist-driven and totalitarian governments (i.e. Saudi Arabia) apparently have bans on internet use or the use of portions of the internet that go against the ideology of the ruling class.
-The more industrialized countries are generally the more liberal in terms of gender and sexual identification. Whereas the U.S., Canada, Britain and most of Western Europe are (generally more) open to nontraditional lifestyles, the religious and cultural views prevalent in such regions as the Middle East and Africa would make identifying as asexual less likely.
A cross-cultural comparison in asexuality, therefore, is not truly available here, because the poll most likely isn’t truly representative of the geographic face of asexuality.
IS ASEXUALITY CAUSED BY…?
Parental strife
Another surprise provided by the polls was that many of them had parents who were still married. A stereotype of asexuality is that they had “bad examples” of sexual relationships, provided from an unstable home life. However, whereas the divorce rate in the United States is at 50%, 65% of asexuals said that their parents were still married, while only 30% had divorced parents, and a minute 5% were illegitimate. Such an overwhelming majority would suggest that the stereotype is unfounded. However, one must take into the account that 1) some parents don’t divorce on principle, regardless of the state of the marriage, 2) several respondents commented that one parent had died while still married, and 3) such a broad question allows for a lot of variety.
Marijuana use
Low sex drive has been in some cases attributed to use of marijuana, as have other drugs. However, only a little more than a third of asexuals have actually used marijuana, according to one poll, and the poll did not take note on whether or not a person considered themselves asexual before or after doing the drug. (Note: There were options of how much drug use there had been, and how frequent it had occurred, which were too various and indistinct to use based on a given poll respondent’s interpretation.)
Asperger’s Syndrome
Asperger’s, a social disorder that is a mild, high-functioning form of autism, has also been tied to asexuality and delayed sexual development. Though only a small pool of respondents answered in a poll related to Asperger’s, the percentage that said that they indeed had Asperger’s (13%), is incredibly high in comparison to the 0.0036% of the general population who has the disorder. Another, even larger 41% said that they were “unsure” or that it was possible that they had the disorder. While 13% is not nearly enough to say that Asperger’s is a leading factor in asexuality, the fact that it’s hundreds of times more prevalent in this community than it is in the rest of the world suggests that it indeed does play a role.
High IQ
What the administrators of AVEN call “the myth of asexual superiority” is another one of the stereotypes not based on research but nonetheless prevalent. Many seem to think that without the “distraction” of sexual thoughts and feelings, one has time to focus on other things. Believe it or not, a poll of 92 respondents echo this sentiment: 63% of respondents report having an above-average IQ ranging from a 110 to a 160 (the poll didn’t keep track of IQs above this point), and no one answered that they had an IQ lower than 90. There seems to be a correlation, if indeed this poll is accurate, though a cause-and-effect relationship isn’t clear.
Poor self-esteem
Yet another informally cited cause of asexuality is low self-esteem, especially related to how one looks, that causes one to think that since they can’t find a lover, they don’t want one. However, in polls about body image taken with both males and females, most people in both categories rated themselves as having a moderately negative to moderately positive body image (with indifferent in between) rather than as holding any extreme views of themselves. In total, only 3 people out of 63, or 5%, said that they had a “very negative” body image, whereas 8% said that they had a “very positive” one. However, the number of people who said that they had a “mildly negative” body image was slightly more than was that of people who had a “mildly positive” view, with percentages of 32% to 28%. The main gender gap, when looking at the breakdown of men’s responses and women’s was that 45% of men, in comparison to 19% of women, were indifferent when it came to how they thought they looked, and that the amount of women who viewed themselves as ugly was 10% higher than that of men. The fact that more people had an indifferent or close-to-indifferent view of their bodies, rather than an extreme view one way or another, suggests that the physical side of oneself is not so much a cause of asexuality in that they obsess over it, but because it’s unimportant or of less importance to members of the asexual community.
Age/Experience
A minute few visitors to AVEN have suggested that asexuality is a “phase” that immature teenagers who feel socially awkward go through in an attempt to glorify their lack of sexual maturity by giving it a fancy name, and state that these people are too naïve and uneducated to see that they’re really just sexual like everyone else. An exact third of poll respondents are, in fact, in their teenage years (13-20). However, in the poll, only 7% of people were still in or had dropped out of high school, the exact same percentage of respondents who had or were working on a PhD. The largest portion of asexuals, according to the polls, are in their 20s (44%), and the number of people who declare themselves to be nonsexual starts to decline shortly after, with only 9% of respondents being over the age of 40. Education-wise, 63% of people are working on, dropped out a bit before or obtained a four-year college education, while 22% went farther than that (Masters and PhD) and 4% went to trade school. This generational and educational difference could be seen, instead of being the actual reality, as being a product of the way younger generations, especially college-educated people, tend to think of sexuality. Whereas senior citizens (60 or older) grew up in a time where sex was a private issue that was not discussed and was meant for the purpose of reproduction rather than for pleasure, today’s MTV culture puts a large pressure on young people to start dating, and society is more open to other persuasions than that of heterosexual monogamy. Liberal arts colleges, especially, are almost notorious for being socially progressive, both in terms of professors and students, and encourage both sexual exploration and diversity of orientations without prejudice, and provide more outlets and services for sexual minorities (i.e., straight-gay alliances, tolerance organizations) than do high schools. This could very easily lead to more college-educated people knowing about asexuality and being willing to label themselves as asexual.
Social ineptitude
The online slang dictionary urbandictionary.com used the sniping definition of AVEN as being a community of life’s losers, people who justify their sorry existence of living in their parents’ basements by “brainwashing” others to believe they’re part of a special category because they couldn’t fit in with others. This speaks for many other people, who view asexuals as either shy neurotics who can’t seem to get along with others or misanthropic narcissists who look down at everyone else. However, in labeling themselves, most asexuals declared themselves to be “fairly social” (38%) or “anti-social” (40%), with only 15% going so far as to label themselves “misanthropic.” The other 7% classified themselves as “gregarious.” As usual, the large majority stuck to a moderate response rather than an extreme one way or another, which could mean a host of things that would pertain more to individuals than the group at large.
SURVEY QUESTIONS
1) How long have you known you're asexual?
2) Have you been diagnosed with any sort of sexual disorder, mental or physical?
3) Have you been diagnosed with any sort of personality disorder?
4) Do you take any sort of medications? (If so, please list)
5) Have you ever felt sexually attracted to anyone of either gender?
6) Have you ever been in a sexual relationship?
7) If so, did you realize you were asexual during or after this relationship?
8) On a scale of 1-10, rate the stability of your parents' marriage.
9) Did you come from a family background other than traditional two-parent? If so, describe.
10) Have you or anyone in your family been sexually abused or assaulted?
11) Are you in anyway bothered by your asexuality?
12) Have you ever enjoyed or wanted sex?
13) Are you open to the idea that you'll find an enjoyable sexual relationship in the future?
14) Do you have any sexual interest in non-humans?
15) Do you consider yourself (choose all that apply):
Aromantic
Asocial
Androgynous
Aesthetically attracted to others
Sexually attracted, but not driven to act
16) Are you or were you a part of any religious organization that advocated chastity or celibacy?
17) Was there any physical or emotional abuse in your childhood home?
18) On a scale of 1-10, rate your own:
-Looks
-Social skills
-Sense of style
-Mental wellbeing
-Health
-Intelligence
19) Do you yourself see asexuality as being as valid an orientation as hetero, homo and bisexuality?
20) Please leave any extra information that you would think to be useful here.
SURVEY RESULTS
The survey went on for 3 weeks, from 5 February to 26 February, on the AVEN Questions and Answers forum board. There were 19 questions and one free response on the original survey, as shown on the questions page. Only select questions were used, for the following reasons:
-Not all the questions allowed for concise, clear answers that could be categorized.
-Many respondents didn’t give simple answers to simple questions.
-I abridged my project, making several questions unnecessary.
-The poll answered several of the questions in a more efficient way than did the survey.
Participants: 39
Questions used: 5, 6, 8, 11, 12, 14, 15, 18
Have you ever felt sexually attracted to anyone of either gender?
Yes: 15% (6)
No: 85% (33)
Have you ever been in a sexual relationship?
Yes: 18% (7)
No: 82% (32)
On a scale of 1-10, rate the stability of your parents’ marriage.
1: 7% (3)
2: 0% (0)
3: 3% (1)
4: 5% (2)
5: 5% (2)
6: 0% (0)
7: 3% (1)
8: 8% (3)
9: 13% (5)
10: 36% (14)
There was no marriage: 5% (2)
I don’t know: 15% (6)
Are you in anyway bothered by your asexuality?
Yes: 26% (10)
No: 74% (29)
Have you ever enjoyed or wanted sex?
Yes: 23% (9)
No: 77% (30)
(Yes includes people who said yes to one and no to the other)
Do you have any sexual interest in nonhumans?
Yes: 0% (0)
No: 100% (39)
Do you consider yourself (choose all that apply):
Aromantic: 28% (11)
Asocial: 33% (13)
Androgynous: 38% (15)
Aesthetically attracted to others: 77% (30)
Sexually attracted, but not driven to act: 10% (4)
On a scale of 1-10, rate your own:
Looks:
1: 0% (0)
2: 0% (0)
3: 2% (1)
4: 8% (3)
5: 23% (9)
6: 18% (7)
7: 28% (11)
8: 13% (5)
9: 3% (1)
10: 3% (1)
No response: 2% (1)
Social skills:
1: 2% (1)
2: 0% (0)
3: 8% (3)
4: 28% (11)
5: 18% (7)
6: 18% (7)
7: 13% (5)
8: 3% (1)
9: 5% (2)
10: 3% (1)
No response: 2% (1)
Sense of style:
1: 8% (3)
2: 8% (3)
3: 8% (3)
4: 8% (3)
5: 23% (9)
6: 15% (6)
7: 10% (4)
8: 8% (3)
9: 5% (2)
10: 5% (2)
No response: 2% (1)
Mental well-being:
1: 0% (0)
2: 5% (2)
3: 2% (1)
4: 10% (4)
5: 13% (5)
6: 13% (5)
7: 13% (5)
8: 8% (3)
9: 18% (7)
10: 13% (5)
No response: 5% (2)
Health:
1: 0% (0)
2: 0% (0)
3: 5% (2)
4: 5% (2)
5: 8% (3)
6: 8% (3)
7: 23% (9)
8: 20% (8)
9: 20% (8)
10: 8% (3)
No response: 3% (1)
Intelligence:
1: 0% (0)
2: 0% (0)
3: 0% (0)
4: 0% (0)
5: 2% (1)
6: 2% (1)
7: 13% (5)
8: 28% (11)
9: 33% (13)
10: 20% (8)
No response: 2% (1)
SURVEY ANALYSIS
The results of the survey taken on AVEN’s Question and Answer forum were not as surprising as those of the polls, and often concurred with them. The poll was taken for 3 weeks and 2 days, from the 5th to the 26th of February. It had 19 questions and a free response space provided. It got 39 responses over that period of time (not counting those who replied to other people’s posts). Only a select group of questions were used here, either because the others were too subjective, the respondents consistently missed the point or made their answers unclear, or because the polls answered certain questions better and provided for easier analysis.
DEBUNKING THE “BROKEN HOME ASEXUAL” MYTH
The survey backed up what the polls had to say about the stability of marriage between parents of asexuals. 36% said that their parents had a “perfect” marriage, a 10 on a 1-10 scale of stability. Less than 10% said that their parents’ relationship was less than a 6 on that scale. Furthermore, many noted that, though their parents had divorced early on, they had not been bitter or hateful about it, and some even said that their parents were still friends. The final piece of news in this is that only 2 people, or 5% of the respondents, said that their parents had never married. With both the polls and the survey stating that generally asexuals come from good, stable homes, it’s safe to say that the idea that asexuals simply haven’t had good examples set for them is unfounded.
ONCE ASEXUAL, ALWAYS ASEXUAL?
This would seem to be the case, seeing that over 80% said that not only had they never been in a sexual relationship, but that they’d never felt attraction to either sex. (One person had said that though they felt no attraction, they had been in a sexual relationship, but otherwise, there was a consistency in answers to the two questions.) Furthermore, 77% had said that they had never desired or enjoyed sex, ruling out the possibility that other factors, such as marijuana use, traumatic sexual experiences or the taking of libido-reducing medication, had influenced their sexual preference, or rather lack thereof.
The idea that a psychological disorder such as sexual aversion disorder (which entails that someone had desire and experiences anxiety as a result of being disgusted by sex) plays a factor was also disproved by the fact that 74% of asexuals said that they were not bothered by their lack of interest. The 26% that said that their lack of interest did bother them cited loneliness, feelings of isolation from the majority of the world and anxiety related to finding nonsexual companionship as the cause of their distress over it, rather than the actual lack of interest itself. Much of this 26% answered yes to the question of whether they had felt sexual desire at one point, saying in their comments that they had faked sexuality and tried to convince themselves that they did have a traditional orientation to fit in.
CATEGORIZATIONS WITHIN ASEXUALITY
Though the concept of having no sexuality is often assumed to be equitable with having less emotional capability and an insensitivity to aesthetic beauty, the survey suggests the opposite. Only 18% considered themselves to be “aromantic,” or being without the wish for a loving relationship, and 77% claim that they feel an aesthetic, nonsexual attraction to others, similar to looking at a beautiful painting, and recognize what looks good in other people. Yet another group, 10% of respondents, said that they have the odd combination of feeling sexually attracted to other people, but having no desire to have such contact with them for one reason or another.
A good 38% of people consider themselves to be mentally androgynous, or having a gender that shares qualities of males and females. This is not surprising, what with gender and sexuality being closely tied, and this result very closely echoes the figures in the gender poll about how many people considered themselves to be independent of either gender. However, many who responded that they did not consider themselves androgynous said that they strongly identify with the gender corresponding to their biological sex, perhaps answering the question of overlap raised by the gender and sex polls.
HOW PREVALENT ARE NONHUMAN SEXUAL INTERESTS?
Considering that 100% of respondents responded in the negative to a question of whether they have nonhuman interests (i.e., fetishes, bestiality, etc.), and that many expressed revulsion at the idea, it’s almost a sure thing that sexual interests involving things other than people isn’t an issue in the asexual community.
IS ASEXUALITY THE RESULT OF LOW SELF ESTEEM?
Another one of the assumptions made about asexuality is that those who claim to be part of that community suffer from an incredible self-esteem problem that leads to the conclusion that, since they can’t get a significant other because they’re too ugly, stupid, unhealthy, or whatever else, that they simply “won’t want it.” However insightful this theory may be, it hardly holds true. Asexuals consider themselves highly intelligent: no respondent put down that they believed they were less than a 5 on a 1-10 scale of intelligence, and slightly more than 80% believed that they were an 8 or above (20% believe they are a 10 on that scale). Most asexuals also consider themselves to be quite (physically) healthy, a 63% majority of them ranking themselves as a 7-9 on a 1-10 scale. Mental health and taste and style were very mixed, there being no clear majority of people who considered themselves to be either seriously lacking or superb in either category. Most people, when ranking themselves on a scale of 1-10 in regards to their looks and social skills (the things that are most often thought to be lacking in asexuals), tended to lean towards the middle, the largest portions labeling themselves as 4s through 6s. There was no one category where extremely low self-esteem was shown, though the first two show well enough that the asexual community doesn’t suffer from such an affliction. It might be useful to note that people who consistently chose low or high rankings were aware of having either a high or low self-esteem, and put that in their comments.
CONCLUSION
While showing an unusually high tendency toward certain traits and situations than do the majority of the world, the asexual community does not show itself to be dramatically different in all respects from it. Often, what was expected based on broadly held conceptions proved false, while things that would seem ordinary and nothing to be astounded by were made important when compared to what figures were outside the asexual community.
However, there are two things that could have been improved in the researching and execution of this project. The most glaring is the fact that some of the questions in the survey were subjective and hard to use for statistical purposes. This led to confusion on the parts of the respondents, and it made the survey unusable to an extent. The second thing that would’ve made this experiment more conclusive is a more effective polling system than the AVEN system allowed for: one that would’ve allowed for seeing how individuals voted on each poll to prevent confusion related to how data combined and conflicted between different polls; one that would have an equal number of respondents for all available polls; and one that was able to show the true cultural and geographic makeup of the community.
While the connections between religion, education, low self-esteem and a bad family life with asexuality were disproved quite thoroughly by the polls and surveys provided, there are still questions left to be answered. Is the astounding rate of occurrence of Asperger’s Syndrome in the community significant enough to prove a definite connection between it and asexuality? If indeed there is a correlation between asexuality and high IQ, is there any sort of cause-and-effect relationship? Can the use of marijuana truly be attributed to all-out asexuality, or simply to a reduced libido? To answer all these questions thoroughly would take much more research and resources than would be available for a high school science fair project. However, if human asexuality gains scientific recognition as an issue worthy of investigation, these questions will most likely be answered eventually.
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